Oct 13, 2019

Nicole's New Digs


Hello, friends! We have officially entered our summer months here in Lanseria and that means temperatures hanging out around 90 degrees and (prayerfully) some rainy weather heading our way more regularly. Per usual, it has been several months since I’ve checked in blog-wise and I wanted to update you on life!

Dining Room table -- Rachel matching my newly painted door

When I last wrote, I shared with you my desire to move out into a new place and asked you to pray about joining me in that new venture. God’s kindness through YOU showed up and in July I moved into my new “hobbit hole” just across the river from the Baby House. By June God provided the money needed to start the renovation of my new space and He showed up in His perfect timing and could wrap up the renovation by July. I moved in on 16 July and have spent the last few months working on making it cozy and functional. It has been fun learning how to live in a smaller space (with limited cupboard space) and have enjoyed waking up each morning to a different kind of noisy neighbors. Instead of 16 little voices waking me before my alarm I now am greeted with rooster calls and school transport horn hoots. It is a different kind of wonderful – and have mostly enjoyed carving out my new normal of life outside of the Baby Home. 

Bedroom -- Living Room

Ever since my first walkthrough of my new place I kept referring to the space as my “hobbit hole”. Mostly because I was losing some square footage and it was a bit musty from unused. My first weekend home I spent some time journaling the journey and asking Jesus to use the space as His own. I decided to look up the bit of The Hobbit where Tolkien described a hobbit hole and this is what he wrote, “In a hole in the ground there lived a hobbit. Not a nasty, dirty, wet hole, filled with the ends of worms and an oozy smell, nor yet a dry, bare, sandy hole with nothing in it to sit down on or to eat: it was a hobbit-hole, and that means comfort.” I believe the Lord allowed me to move into this space with the desire for it to be a place of comfort – for others and for me! I pray that if you ever find yourself in my neck of the woods that you will be able to sneak over for a cup of coffee and a snack in a place where you can rest and meet the comfort of the One who loves and knows you best. 

The toddlers breaking in the couch -- New washing machine!

I spent my first two months working hard to carve out a routine that had me up at the Baby Home at varied times and then promptly had it upended with the arrival of our newest little, baby boy M. Baby M came to us via our Baby Safe and was the first little to spend his first weeks with us sharing his time with us and in my new home during the nights and on weekends. Baby M is proving to be a relaxed and happy little man who was happy to go with the flow. We bonded easily and even with 3-hourly feeds it was a joy to have him as my first official house guest! September also brought my first grown up guests when I had the privilege of hosting two Dutchies over a long weekend. It was a jammed packed weekend full of catching up over tasty breakfasts and dinners out. We busted out the air mattress and shared my space in funny and creative ways. It was such a joy to have them over and look forward to having them again (2021, right girls?!). 

Sweet friends -- Baby M enjoying an afternoon stretch 

One of the fun parts of my new space is having a kitchen to cook with and a living room to host people in. One of our new weekly events is a Bible Study for all the female residential volunteers. We meet on Thursday nights and have coined our gathering “The Garden” because saying we are meeting up for “The Garden” somehow sounds more apropos than meeting up for a mere Bible study. My new kitchen is tiny (but mighty) with open shelving and a newly donated washing machine that arrived last week! My friend, Megan, had told me about another expat blogger who was running a fun series in October called This Global Kitchen and my little kitchen was invited to participate! We will be featured on the blog on the 27thof this month alongside 30 other perfectly imperfect kitchens from all over the world. Check out the amazing list here

My little kitchen -- my first dinner in my new digs

Thank you for everyone who helped make my moving into a new place a reality! I continued to be blown away with the Lord’s kindness and love exhibited to me through you. I will be in California this Christmas and hope to connect with many of you then! I am also going to be sending out another update via email with some info that I feel needs to be shared in a less “public” arena. If you are not receiving those emails (and would like to) please drop me a line at nicolegillette@gmail.com and I will happily add you to the list. I pray that whatever season you find yourself into today that you will look for and be able to easily see the deep love that the Father has for you. 



Hope to have you over for coffee soon -- An encouraging word

P.S. One fun thing that happened since we last spoke is that our Mr. T met his Forever Family last week! He has been with us since he was 5 days old and it has been a joy watching him learn, grow and love these past 3 years together. It was an honor and a privilege to introduce him to his Forever family and I am happy to share that they are all doing incredibly well and are enjoying their time in South Africa as a family before they head home to Sweden. Please join us in praying that more of our kiddos will be able to celebrate Christmas with their Forever Families. Mr. T’s adoption is only our second adoption this year. We are asking God for at least four more adoptions this year because we have four kiddos who are matched with families and we are just waiting for all the legal things (like court dates) to go through. Adoption is under attack here is South Africa – to learn more about this hard reality you can read about it here

 Kisses with Baby B -- Looking so very dapper!

All my love! Xoxoxoxo ~ Nicole and all the babies at El Roi 


Apr 9, 2019

LIV-ing It Up in Lanseria!

Greetings from beautiful South Africa! We are currently enjoying the very first days of what I would deem “Fall” weather… grey skies, scattered showers and adding blankets to the babies’ cots. Even after living here in Johannesburg for 7+ years my brain still struggles to reconcile this hemisphere’s weather patterns to days on the calendar. This week has felt like Thanksgiving is around the corner rather than Easter! Maybe my brain will reprogram its weather system some day?! 

Baby Girl G on Valentine's Day -- Kisses for Baby Boy A -- Baby Boy N catching up on his reading
It would take ages for me to update you (via this blog) on all that has happened over the last 8 months but I want to take a few moments to try and update you on what is newest and most exciting on the horizon for me and our crew at El Roi. 

In August of last year our parent organization, Refilwe Community Project, decided to merge with a national organization called LIV. LIV is an international family that has several villages here in South Africa and we’ve even just started the process of starting a village in San Antonio, TX! Our merger is a wild and beautiful story and we are still just figuring out what it means to be a part of the greater LIV family but long story short: our hearts are in alignment and we feel like this merger is the best way to expand the Kingdom of God in our community. You can learn more about LIV here!


Each LIV village is serving a different community and while we are unified in core values, mission and vision, each village has its own story, strengths and programs. Currently, our village is the only village that has a specific Baby Home program that focuses on responding to the abandonment crisis in our country by connecting abandoned babies to forever families through the process of adoption. As we’ve been getting to know the LIV family and beginning the process of praying, hoping and planning for what God has for LIV Lanseria we have been dreaming of how we can care for not just dozens of but hundreds of babies through the program that God has created at El Roi. Full disclosure: just typing out that sentence is equal parts thrilling and terrifying.Truth is, the societal problems that lead to baby abandonment in this country are not decreasing, if anything they are on the rise. The need for safe and love homes for orphaned and vulnerable babies is growing and we would like to be a part of the solution. We are asking the Lord to help us purchase land that will let us expand our village to be able to care for more children here in Lanseria. 

Pictures of sweet Baby Girl C, the second baby to come to us through our Baby Safe 
I have spent considerable time in the last few months asking (okay, begging) God for divine wisdom about how to begin moving forward with the ginormous and overwhelming vision of caring for hundreds of babies. I believe that Jesus has created something unique at El Roi and part of my job is trying to discern how we can replicate what we’ve created in a sustainable way. I don’t want to build a huge building to house hundreds of babies but I would love to be able to build a “baby sanctuary” with smaller homes individually managed and settled in beside one another. Our current home is relatively replicable except one key component: I live in the Baby Home! To find managers who are able and willing to live in the Baby Home seems like a stretch but I am confident we could find managers who would be willing to live on the village (with their families). I would like to move out of the Baby Home to see if we can sustain the culture we’ve created without a manager living in the home. That way we know what we want to build when we are given the opportunity to expand onto whatever new land God has planned for LIV Lanseria.

My potential new digs
I am hoping to be able to move out sometime in 2019 but for that to happen there are few ducks we need to get in to a row. Firstly, I need to be able to have somewhere to move out to! We have identified a little one bedroom/one bathroom flat on the other side of the river (where most the village lives) that I can move into once it has been renovated. It has been sitting unoccupied for a few years and needs quite a few things done to make it inhabitable and home. The flat needs new plumbing and electrical systems, new flooring and paint and a kitchen overhaul. I also need to purchase or find donations of the living items I will need for my new place. New kitchen appliances like an oven and a refrigerator, living room items like a couch and curtains as well as little items like a shower curtain or spoons. We’ve had a contractor come and quote for the renovation and I have put together a short list of items that I will need to secure. As it currently sits with the exchange rate I need to raise a total of $12,500 to cover the renovation costs as well as all the other anticipated set up costs. If you would like to join my renovation team you can send your tax-deductible gift to a few different ways through Valley Bible Church by visiting their website here

Baby Boy N with his teddy -- A timely reminder -- One of my DOH babies all grown up and in town for a visit
Secondly, we need to be able to get Board approval to hire another Auntie on to our team so that we can schedule two Aunties to cover each night shift. Right now, one Auntie covers the house at night with me filling in the gaps where needed with new, sick or fussy babies and I won’t feel comfortable moving out of the Baby Home until we are able to schedule two Aunties per night shift. We recently launched a new fundraising campaign called LIV4Babies which invites people to support individual babies at R5,000 per month which we are praying will bring in the extra funds needed to hire a new Auntie. If you would like to join our LIV4Babies support team you can find out more here

Baby Boy K hanging out -- I love these little feet -- Snuggles with Baby Boy B
If you have any questions or want to more specific details about all the new stuff going down, please let me know! Admittedly, I am not very faithful about updating my blog but I do update my Facebook account and the El Roi Facebook account regularly as well as my Instagram. Come find us there for more up-to-date info! I am beyond blessed with my beautiful and encouraging team of supporters. I would not, could not, be here without your faithful love, support and prayers. I love you!


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